It was good to see you in the corridor the other day. Sorry I didn’t have chance to say hello before you shouted at me.
I do appreciate just how cross you were that my eleven year old son and his friends woke you when they came up the stairs at 5 30 from their camping expedition in the garden. It is a shame that the sun rises so early in the summer and they felt compelled to get up and dressed. When I offered advance warning of his birthday party and said they might come upstairs in the night for the toilet, or if they were scared, I hadn’t considered this scenario. I do apologise.
When I said they were nice boys (all five of them) I sincerely believed it. I fully understand from your comments that this is not the case. Clearly nice 11 year olds do not jump on stairways. However I am immensely relieved that no other residents heard this atrocious behaviour. Again, please accept my apologies.
It was lovely how so many residents (some I’d never met before) expressed how delighted they were to see the little camp hidden under the willow tree. One even said how relieved he was, as he felt he’d made the wrong move coming here. I felt truly welcomed by this and other positive responses. It was encouraging that others share my belief that children should enjoy the freedom of a night in the garden. It is such a dream spot, under the willow tree by the brook. I had it in mind that all the boys would treasure such an experience. Especially being woken by a snuffling badger – how rare that must be these days! Perhaps it was selfish of me.
On a minor note, I hope you will not be offended by a positive suggestion. I generally find it helpful, in unexpected meetings, to offer a positive greeting before any grievances are unleashed to those clearly unknowing of a situation. Luckily I am fairly perceptive and was able to perceive how aggrieved you were by your face and gesticulations. Not everyone is so fortunate, and others less sensitive might have felt threatened by the unusual volume . I do apologise for my response, but I was caught off-guard by your assertion that placing a tyre swing under the tree has brought ‘undersirables’ to the area.
I’m relieved that, like me, other residents haven’t noticed any such types around. This is puzzling as unlike you my balcony overlooks the tree. I have been pleased on 3 occasions to see families on the swing (once with the grandparents taking photos) and I did once see two men who I mistook for the tree surgeons. It turned out one had brought his friend to see the spot, as he had fished there frequently as a boy and loved it so much, which was nice. I am sure you were trying not to worry me but If you do see more ‘undesirable’ types, I would consider it a neighbourly gesture if you could warn me. Meanwhile I am sure you are right that they are being drawn by the swing, although it’s not visible until you’re under the canopy, and so I will of course remove it.
This is such a lovely secluded spot and my boys regularly remark on how lucky we are. I had thought it a positive thing to encourage my children to enjoy the tree and the wildlife it brings. We all share such a delight when the heron visits. I hadn’t considered that locating a swing wouldn’t be a good idea, but perhaps they should just watch the squirrels from the balcony in future.
I do hope we can continue to maintain a good relationship and put this behind us. Do feel free to say ‘hello’ any time.
Warm regards, Jane
PS I had considered putting a table and chairs under the tree for residents to share tea and a chat. Would this be a bad idea, do you think?